The Forbidden Pages

Every post contains something our publishers made us cut, our lawyers begged us to bury, or our beta readers said went too far. This is where the real education begins.

Are You The Toxic One?

Are You The Toxic One?

Why am I so tired after every conversation?

How To Manipulate a Narcissist

How To Manipulate a Narcissist

Why does this person make me feel like I'm losing my mind?

The Final Warning for People Pleasers

The Final Warning for People Pleasers

Is this really who you are, or just who you learned to be to survive?

This Is Why You're Stuck

This Is Why You're Stuck

Why am I still reading about change instead of changing?

"Be Yourself" Is Terrible Advice

"Be Yourself" Is Terrible Advice

What if the one piece of advice everyone agrees on is actually destroying your life?

The Four Words of Terror

The Four Words of Terror

The four-word phrase that has likely held your body hostage before.

Why You Prefer Guaranteed Misery Over Potential Joy

Why You Prefer Guaranteed Misery Over Potential Joy

Why do we manage uncertainty by creating even more of it?

People-Pleasing is a Survival Program

People-Pleasing is a Survival Program

Why does their slight frown feel like a knife to your chest?

Why You're Addicted to Mediocre Partners

Why You're Addicted to Mediocre Partners

Why does this relationship feel like wearing a coat two sizes too small?

Emptiness After Success

Emptiness After Success

Is this it? Is this all there is?

The Dopamine of "Almost"

The Dopamine of "Almost"

Why does planning feel better than doing? 

Is Empathy a Skill?

Is Empathy a Skill?

Why does your empathy switch off when the homeless person asks for change but surge when your friend texts about their breakup?