The Forbidden Pages

Every post contains something our publishers made us cut, our lawyers begged us to bury, or our beta readers said went too far.

Conversational Narcissism: The Cannibal at the Table
  • by Stan Taylor

Conversational Narcissism: The Cannibal at the Table

Why you keep consuming the people in front of you to fill a hole dug in childhood.

A Lesson in Power Dynamics at Work
  • by Stan Taylor

A Lesson in Power Dynamics at Work

See how getting good at your job switches off the brain circuit that reads power.

 

The Fawn Response: An Education in Disappearing for Others
  • by Stan Taylor

The Fawn Response: An Education in Disappearing for Others

Why does being useful feels like the surest way to be loved? 

The Know-It-All Personality: Why the 'Smartest' Person Builds Nothing
  • by Stan Taylor

The Know-It-All Personality: Why the 'Smartest' Person Builds Nothing

Why does the 'smartest' person in the room tend to build nothing?

Therapy Dependency: When Therapy Needs You to Stay Broken
  • by Stan Taylor

Therapy Dependency: When Therapy Needs You to Stay Broken

In reading this, you will meet the one product the industry cannot afford to cure: the perpetual patient.

Threshold Addiction: The Dopamine of "Almost"
  • by Stan Taylor

Threshold Addiction: The Dopamine of "Almost"

Why does planning feel better than doing? 

Am I the Toxic One? An Honest Diagnostic
  • by Stan Taylor

Am I the Toxic One? An Honest Diagnostic

Close the wound or bleed to death believing your emotional hemorrhaging is holy.

How To Manipulate a Narcissist
  • by Stan Taylor

How To Manipulate a Narcissist

Why does this person make me feel like I'm losing my mind?

How to Stop Being a People Pleaser: A Final Warning
  • by Stan Taylor

How to Stop Being a People Pleaser: A Final Warning

Is this really who you are, or just who you learned to be to survive?

Why You Feel Stuck: The Parasite Eating Your Potential
  • by Stan Taylor

Why You Feel Stuck: The Parasite Eating Your Potential

Why am I still reading about change instead of changing?

"Be Yourself" Is Terrible Advice When Identity Isn't a Choice
  • by Stan Taylor

"Be Yourself" Is Terrible Advice When Identity Isn't a Choice

What if the one piece of advice everyone agrees on is actually destroying your life?

"We Need to Talk": Why Four Words Trigger Total Panic
  • by Stan Taylor

"We Need to Talk": Why Four Words Trigger Total Panic

The four-word phrase that has likely held your body hostage before.

The Need for Control: Why You Prefer Guaranteed Misery Over Potential Joy
  • by Stan Taylor

The Need for Control: Why You Prefer Guaranteed Misery Over Potential Joy

Why do we manage uncertainty by creating even more of it?

People-Pleasing is a Survival Program
  • by Stan Taylor

People-Pleasing is a Survival Program

Why does their slight frown feel like a knife to your chest?

Why You're Addicted to Mediocre Partners (Trauma Bonding in Disguise)
  • by Stan Taylor

Why You're Addicted to Mediocre Partners (Trauma Bonding in Disguise)

Why does this relationship feel like wearing a coat two sizes too small?

Emptiness After Success
  • by Stan Taylor

Emptiness After Success

Is this it? Is this all there is?

Is Empathy a Skill?
  • by Stan Taylor

Is Empathy a Skill?

Why does your empathy switch off when the homeless person asks for change but surge when your friend texts about their breakup?

Is Empathy Toxic?
  • by Stan Taylor

Is Empathy Toxic?

Why does caring about others leave you feeling so empty?

Thought Leaders Need Idiots: The Guru Business Model
  • by Stan Taylor

Thought Leaders Need Idiots: The Guru Business Model

Why does their confidence feel like your incompetence?

American Propaganda: The Beautiful Lies You Call Normal
  • by Stan Taylor

American Propaganda: The Beautiful Lies You Call Normal

Why does breakfast feel like the most important meal of the day when your grandparents barely ate it?