The Forbidden Pages

Every post contains something our publishers made us cut, our lawyers begged us to bury, or our beta readers said went too far.

The Cannibal at the Table
  • by Stan Taylor

The Cannibal at the Table

Why you keep consuming the people in front of you to fill a hole dug in childhood.

A Lesson in Power Dynamics at Work
  • by Stan Taylor

A Lesson in Power Dynamics at Work

See how getting good at your job switches off the brain circuit that reads power.

 

An Education in Disappearing for Others
  • by Stan Taylor

An Education in Disappearing for Others

Why does being useful feels like the surest way to be loved? 

Behold, The Know-It-All
  • by Stan Taylor

Behold, The Know-It-All

Why does the 'smartest' person in the room tend to build nothing?

When Therapy Needs You to Stay Broken
  • by Stan Taylor

When Therapy Needs You to Stay Broken

In reading this, you will meet the one product the industry cannot afford to cure: the perpetual patient.

The Dopamine of "Almost"
  • by Stan Taylor

The Dopamine of "Almost"

Why does planning feel better than doing? 

Are You The Toxic One?
  • by Stan Taylor

Are You The Toxic One?

Close the wound or bleed to death believing your emotional hemorrhaging is holy.

How To Manipulate a Narcissist
  • by Stan Taylor

How To Manipulate a Narcissist

Why does this person make me feel like I'm losing my mind?

A Final Warning for People Pleasers
  • by Stan Taylor

A Final Warning for People Pleasers

Is this really who you are, or just who you learned to be to survive?

This Is Why You're Stuck
  • by Stan Taylor

This Is Why You're Stuck

Why am I still reading about change instead of changing?

"Be Yourself" Is Terrible Advice
  • by Stan Taylor

"Be Yourself" Is Terrible Advice

What if the one piece of advice everyone agrees on is actually destroying your life?

The Four Words of Terror
  • by Stan Taylor

The Four Words of Terror

The four-word phrase that has likely held your body hostage before.

Why You Prefer Guaranteed Misery Over Potential Joy
  • by Stan Taylor

Why You Prefer Guaranteed Misery Over Potential Joy

Why do we manage uncertainty by creating even more of it?

People-Pleasing is a Survival Program
  • by Stan Taylor

People-Pleasing is a Survival Program

Why does their slight frown feel like a knife to your chest?

Why You're Addicted to Mediocre Partners
  • by Stan Taylor

Why You're Addicted to Mediocre Partners

Why does this relationship feel like wearing a coat two sizes too small?

Emptiness After Success
  • by Stan Taylor

Emptiness After Success

Is this it? Is this all there is?

Is Empathy a Skill?
  • by Stan Taylor

Is Empathy a Skill?

Why does your empathy switch off when the homeless person asks for change but surge when your friend texts about their breakup?

Is Empathy Toxic?
  • by Stan Taylor

Is Empathy Toxic?

Why does caring about others leave you feeling so empty?

Thought Leaders Need Idiots
  • by Stan Taylor

Thought Leaders Need Idiots

Why does their confidence feel like your incompetence?

Beautiful American Propaganda
  • by Stan Taylor

Beautiful American Propaganda

Why does breakfast feel like the most important meal of the day when your grandparents barely ate it?