THE TRAINING

University of Chicago, BA in economics and psychology. One discipline studies what people choose and the other studies why they were always going to choose it, and the space between those two answers became my career. I went deep into the neuroscience of influence, the physical machinery of habit, desire, and decision, because I wanted to know where choices actually come from before anyone dressed the answer up in philosophy.

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The Anonymity

Stan Taylor is a pen name, and I tell you that on my own about page because this entire operation runs on a bet most publishers would call suicidal: that transparency sells better than polish. The anonymity is permanent. My former clients prefer it, my former colleagues require it, and the work is built to stand without a face attached. You are here because something in your life keeps running a program you never chose, and I know how that program was written.

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THE BIG IDEA

Extraction is the organizing principle of the modern world. Medical systems, media, markets, platforms, casinos, and ad networks are engineered to harvest predictable people, and the engineering is superb. Nobody is coming to regulate it away, and no election will vote it out, because the machinery predates every politician who promises to fix it.

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THE PROOF

The reader groups are where the theory goes to get tested, and they are the part of this operation I am proudest of. Thousands of members documenting the daily work in public: catches, relapses, guillotines executed, parents holding steady through a storm that Chapter 5 predicted by name. The groups have one strange feature you will notice immediately. They are designed to be outgrown, and when someone announces they are leaving, we congratulate them. Both books were built to make you stop needing them, and that includes needing me.

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Stop being predictable

That single sentence is my answer to every macro question I get asked. A regulated nervous system plus influence literacy survives every scenario the doomers can imagine. And underneath it sits one more idea, the one every reader eventually collides with: there is no real self buried under your programming waiting to be found. There is only the programming, and the ability to choose what replaces it. Everything I have written terminates at that choice.

1st Release

The Black Book of Power

Released October 2025

2nd Release

The Little Dictator

Released July 2026

If the fight is with your own patterns, start with The Black Book of Power. If the fight is with what your love keeps doing to your child, start with The Little Dictator. Either way, the reading is the easy part, the protocols are the point, and the price is the first test of whether you actually mean it.

I sell nowhere else. Every listing you find on those platforms is a counterfeit assembled by opportunists, and the real books live in exactly one place: stantaylor.com.

Read My Essays

The Curse of Benevolent Sexism

The Curse of Benevolent Sexism

Ask her if she is free. Watch how fast, and how warmly, she says yes.

The Cannibal at the Table

The Cannibal at the Table

Why you keep consuming the people in front of you to fill a hole dug in childhood.

A Lesson in Power Dynamics at Work

A Lesson in Power Dynamics at Work

See how getting good at your job switches off the brain circuit that reads power.

 

An Education in Disappearing for Others

An Education in Disappearing for Others

Why does being useful feels like the surest way to be loved? 

Behold, The Know-It-All

Behold, The Know-It-All

Why does the 'smartest' person in the room tend to build nothing?

When Therapy Needs You to Stay Broken

When Therapy Needs You to Stay Broken

In reading this, you will meet the one product the industry cannot afford to cure: the perpetual patient.

The Dopamine of "Almost"

The Dopamine of "Almost"

Why does planning feel better than doing? 

Are You The Toxic One?

Are You The Toxic One?

Close the wound or bleed to death believing your emotional hemorrhaging is holy.

How To Manipulate a Narcissist

How To Manipulate a Narcissist

Why does this person make me feel like I'm losing my mind?

A Final Warning for People Pleasers

A Final Warning for People Pleasers

Is this really who you are, or just who you learned to be to survive?

This Is Why You're Stuck

This Is Why You're Stuck

Why am I still reading about change instead of changing?

"Be Yourself" Is Terrible Advice

"Be Yourself" Is Terrible Advice

What if the one piece of advice everyone agrees on is actually destroying your life?

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